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The country has come a long way in recognizing that just
because people may not fit our stereotypical definition of “normal,” it does
not make those outsiders necessarily maladjusted or evil. Homosexuality has
been recognized in many cultures, especially by the ancient Greeks, who
accepted it as an integral part of their culture. However, most of the
Christians I know avow that it is against the Bible, although we must
acknowledge that there are many schools of thought on that subject. That is not
the issue it once was. The real issue is gay marriage. The vast majority of
Christians can only accept the definition of marriage as being between a man
and a woman. America has come a long way in recognizing that gays have as much
a right to live in our culture without fear of retribution. Many Americans are
now willing to accept that many gays want to live in committed relationships,
while governments and American companies recognize that gays can have committed
relationships as deep as heterosexual partners by granting benefits previously
available to only legally married couples. A number of studies after the
presidential election of 2004 found that Americans no longer have the
deep-seated fear of monogamous gay relationships – it’s the issue of gay
marriage that has many people upset. Supporters of gay marriage accused these
same people of being homophobic. That is just not true. The opponents of gay
marriage invoke the bible as their authority for their opposition to gay
marriage. Although it may seem asinine, many of these same people feel that if
you accept marriage between two men or two women, what’s next, a marriage
between a man and an animal? As
ridiculous as that example may seem, the issue concerns then deeply.
When I served in the U.S. Army, we took our basic training
in dilapidated barracks dating back to World War II. Our drill sergeant offered
that we recruits had enthusiastically “volunteered” to repair the barracks in
our off hours, unbeknownst to us of course until we were told of our
commitment. Between the grueling training schedule and then working day and
night and weekends making repairs, we worked or trained 7 days a week. The
barracks was a 2-story open-bay building with one large “head” (or bathroom)
with many urinals, commodes and a large shower room. Make no mistake – there
are no partitions or doors in this area – no hint at privacy. Just watch the
movie, “Full Metal Jacket,” to get an exact image of the barracks. After
completing training on any day, up to 40 or 50 soldiers would pile into the
shower area to remove the muck and filth from the day’s training. There was a
strong likelihood that a number of these soldiers were gay, based on various
estimates that up to 10% of the population is homosexual. If any of these gay
people had made the slightest sexual overture in the shower, he would have been
beaten to death. In the 1960s and 1970s, gays were still regarded as “queers,”
”fags” and other demeaning names. I want to put this in “politically incorrect”
terms. Is there not a great deal of similarity between a gay, male soldier
glancing over at my naked body or at my glancing over at a naked female
soldier? Would we both not have the same sexual urges?
It would seem to me that this scenario applies whether we
are talking about gay men or gay women.
I feel great compassion for the soldiers who undergo
training today under President Bill Clinton’s politically correct “don’t ask,
don’t tell” policy enacted in 1993. I can recall when this policy was first put
into affect I was seated at a table swilling beer and eating pizza with five
PhDs with whom I taught at a university in Southern California, perhaps the
most liberal and open-minded region in the country. Having a very inquisitive
nature, I embarked on an unscientific survey of attitudes about gays in the
military with this group, whom I doubt would be referred to as run-of-the-mill
“red necks.” Of the six people at the
table, five strongly disagreed with the “Clinton” policy due to the closeness
and lack of privacy that is prevalent in military life as an enlisted man. The
one individual who supported the policy was the only person who had never
served in the military. I’m sure this was the situation with President Bill
Clinton and his political advisors, who I’m sure never served either. My
conclusion is if you want me to shower with gay soldiers then at least let’s be
fair and let me shower with an attractive female soldier. Just think of the
wonders this would do for the Army’s recruiting drive. Hell, I might even re-enlist myself.
As I am putting pen to paper, the great scandal at Abu
Ghraib prison in Iraq is unfolding, wherein members of the U.S. Army Military
Police have photographed each other mistreating Iraqi prisoners. These photos
displayed heterosexual and homosexual misconduct and if nothing else, youthful
stupidity.
Major General Antonio Taguba, who was assigned to
investigate the allegations stated in his scathing report that the military
police were sadly lacking in basic military occupational skills. In 1994, co-ed
basic training was imposed on the Army but not the Marine Corps. Within two years,
various scandals erupted at the Aberdeen Proving Grounds and at basic training
facilities regarding sexual favors and harassment. In 1997, former Sen. Nancy
Kassenbaum Baker chaired an advisory committee that studied the issue. The
committee concluded that “Co-ed basic training is resulting in less discipline,
less unit cohesion, and more distraction from training programs.” The number of female Navy sailors who become
pregnant is astronomical. Should this
surprise anyone who has served in the military?
Let me be very clear about this. I strongly agree that both
men and women should equally share the responsibility for protecting the
country. Integrated armies have been very successful as when Russia fought the
Germans in World War II and in modern day Israel. The Russians used women as
aircraft pilots, tank drivers and just about every other skill level other than
the infantry.
The issue I am vehemently opposed to is the issue of
co-educational basic training. Again, I am attacking another politically
correct solution without the barest form of logical thought. The U. S. Marines
have separate facilities for training men and women – they have it right!
Anyone who has ever served in the military recognizes that
co-ed basic training is sheer stupidity.
I would have to conclude that the people who affect such changes have
never served in the military. Let’s understand the environment of basic
training. Unless there have been significant changes in the process since I served,
there is absolutely no privacy during basic training. The military crams in an
enormous amount of training in physical fitness, firing weapons, hand-to-hand
combat, law (the Uniform Code of Military Justice), military etiquette, and
night training exercises. Soldiers are crammed together if for no other reason
to control this youthful mob. At the age most male and female soldiers enlist
is when the “hormones rage” for sexual satisfaction. If an individual has never
served in the military, such as most of our congressional representatives
(lawyers and the like), they can never understand the strain of this period on
one’s life.
There is one very important point that is rarely stressed
when discussing the benefits of integrated male/female Army, Navy, Air Force or
Marine units. During my lifetime, the majority of women I have known do not
want to discuss the horrors of war preferring to bury their head in the sand
akin to an ostrich. When the subject of the brutal daily maiming of soldiers
and civilians in Vietnam was discussed, many women insisted that the
conversation be changed to something more agreeable to a civilized society.
Once women start to return from active duty and they relate
their own personal experiences about the brutality of war to other women, maybe
women will try and change the passion men have had for picking up a weapon and
slaughtering other peoples. Remember, “There is no glory in war.”
I can just picture a wonderful scenario in cultures where
women have a voice. “George, if you go off to fight that war, you won’t be
sleeping in my bed when you return.”
Whoa! Maybe Billy Joe will think
twice before running off to clobber another society. Now we all recognize that
my suggested approach would be infeasible in most Islamic countries where women
are little more than chattel (an item of tangible movable or immovable
property), but the concept might cause a ripple in American society that
hopefully over time would turn into a tsunami.
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